Kommons Guides

Dating & Hookup Guides

No-nonsense advice for dating, hooking up, and meeting people across the UK. Written by people who actually live here and know the score.

Safety

UK Dating Safety: A Practical Guide

How to not get mugged off when meeting someone for the first time — from picking the right spot to spotting dodgy behaviour.

6 min read
Messaging

First Messages That Get Replies

What to actually say (and what to avoid) when you message someone new on Kommons.

5 min read
Date Ideas

Best Date Spots Across the UK

From cosy pubs to coastal walks, our pick of the best first-date spots — places where you can actually have a conversation.

7 min read
Etiquette

Casual Dating Etiquette in the UK

The unwritten rules of casual dating — be honest, be respectful, and don't be a dick about it.

5 min read
City Guides

The UK Hookup Scene: A City-by-City Guide

From London to Edinburgh, what the casual dating scene is actually like — no sugar-coating.

8 min read
Online Dating

Why Men Struggle on Dating Apps in the UK

Men outnumber women 2-to-1 on most UK dating apps. Here's why the odds are against you — and what actually works instead.

7 min read
Meeting People

How to Meet Women in the UK Without Dating Apps

Tired of swiping? Proven ways British men are meeting women in real life and through smarter online alternatives.

8 min read
Casual Dating

The Bloke's Guide to Casual Dating in Britain

Casual dating in the UK has its own unwritten rules. A straightforward guide for men on navigating it honestly and successfully.

9 min read
City Guides

Best Cities in the UK to Meet Single Women

From London to Edinburgh — the best British cities for single men, ranked by nightlife, social scene, and sheer numbers.

10 min read
Profile Tips

How to Write a Dating Profile That Actually Gets Replies

Most dating profiles are forgettable. A practical guide for British men on writing one that stands out and leads to real conversations.

7 min read

Browse Members by Region

Pick your region and see who's nearby. Someone's online right now looking for the same thing you are.